Insecurities

Ok so, in this work you need to find your confidence for several reasons. Not only are you probably going to find yourself in the spotlight of whatever your doing but you are indeed the star of the show session or whatever it may be, therefore second guessing yourself can be detrimental to your income in this field.

So many people are body conscious and worried if being overweight,or skinny,or have stretch marks,scars,birth marks exctetra will turn away potential customers. The answer is always.....not in a way your ever going to notice.How often do people walk up to you and tell you how unattractive they think your stretch marks are and they are not interested?

When your online your only going to attract those who are attracted to you and all your whatever's. By the time a potential customer on web cam send you a "hello" they have already looked you over. If someone replies to a post add or even a bio then they have already decided they are physically attracted to you. When your talking to potential customers you need to be confident in everything that you say. Many of these "potential targets " are even artist and are looking for targets. You need to be able to stick to your standards without folding.

In this field you will be judged unfortunately, you can not let other opinions break you down and many people struggle with that. Bring a strong confident person can take time and sometimes therapy but it is 100% worth the effort. Take a moment to judge your mental health and stability level before diving into adult work.